food poisoning not getting any better. suxx0r leh.
anyway. i haven't blogged for some time so i will. here goes my entry.
well, i've got a question for everyone. what/who has the strongest hands in the world?
well let me tell you the answer. its not arnold schwarzsomethingdunnohowtospell, its not rambo. heck its not even han dong or mr tong. its not even ME.
the answer? TIME. yes. TIME has the strongest hands.
the hands of time cannot be turned back. i'm sure you've probably heard this many times already, but i just need to emphasise on this because i'm sure many of you think this is some cliche, but really, it is quite scary.
think about it. right now. this very second. you're never gonna experience it again. its the one and only time you'll be at that point in time. time will NEVER stop for anyone. time cant be reversed. how many of you actually bother to realise this? i was ignorant but now i realise. and i hope many of you who haven't would also realise this too.
how many times have you done something, only to regret later?
we never know what the future holds in store for us. we cannot do anything about circumstances which we cannot control. elements such as the environmental chaotic changes which sometimes may not be predictable or things like that. those are unavoidable. what we CAN do, however, is to make choices which seem more right than others. it doesn't matter what happens in the future if you made a choice which u felt was the best at that point in time, because we never know what would happen in the future. we have limited control over such things. so it is really up to us to make decisions such that we may at least gain a certain edge over what we may not be able to control- our future.
life is about choices. sometimes there are no right or wrong choices, and it may all come down to even flipping a coin. what matters is that you should not regret a choice you made, if you felt that it was what you felt was best at that point in time.
so back to the point. time is against us. sometimes we make choices out of haste. in the process sometimes the choices we make may not be the choice we would actually want, but we just made that decision in a hurry without enough time to think. but at many times, there is sufficient time to make a choice. to pass a comment or not to, to buy something or not to, to curse and swear or not to, to follow your heart or your head. at that point in time, stop to think: what consequence would my choice lead to?
it probably would give you a clearer idea about which choice would be a better one to make. maybe then would we regret less. maybe then we would be happy in the end.
like i said earlier, time cannot be turned back. to those people who keep saying you hate your parents, you hate your sister, you hate whoever, think about your choice. do you really hate them? sometimes what they do may not be something pleasant to you, or may not seem pleasant to you. sometimes you get annoyed and irritated by what they may do or say. but then it all comes down to this. do you really hate them? could you bear to hate them, even after you may lose them at any point in time?
we may be gone anytime. die in our sleep, car accident, cancer, anything could take away a life. life is fragile. just like any other human beings, our loved ones may just go anytime. whatever your loved ones do, learn to tolerate to a certain extent.
if one day you hate them for doing something to you, and then something bad happens to them, how would you feel if they went, thinking that you still hated them? how would you feel if you never had the chance to tell them you loved them, to tell them you don't hate them, to tell them all these years every time you said you hated them, you didn't?
sometimes you may hate them, but like i said earlier. please try to tolerate. they're your loved ones after all. cherish whatever time you may spend with them. our time on earth is limited. use your time wisely.